5 working girl tips for the job world

It was during one of my job hiatuses that I discovered the joy and peace in watching movies. I’m especially infatuated with old school 80’s and 90’s movies that are slow, have a real story lineinclude no Hollywood drama and immediately draw you in with their depiction of relatable events. Think Unfaithful, Heartburn and my all-time favorite – Working Girl, starring Melanie Griffith. I just started my new job (hence why I thought about this movie); as you may recall I’ve been job hunting since July and have thankfully managed to stay busy and optimistic either way.

Working Girl (Melanie Griffith, Harrison Ford, Sigourney Weaver)





Working Girl (if you haven’t seen it, rent it on Netflix) chronicles Tess McGill (Melanie Griffith) who is a young assistant trying to find her place in the corporate world but is having troubles making her mark in a male-dominated work environment. Her luck changes when she receives the opportunity to work with a female boss Katharine Parker (Sigourney Weaver) but she soon realizes it’s the same game played by a difference horse. Her boss steals her idea and Tess finds a way to get her back by working with Jack Trainer (Harrison Ford). This movie is epic, and really shows you how sometimes you have to play the game in order to come out successful on the other side. I love that Alec Balwin, Kevin Spacey, David Dochovny and Joan Cusack all make appearances in the movie – even in small, impactful cameos. Since I’m back in the work world and finding Working Girl completely relatable, I’ve compiled a list of 5 things that are useful in preparing to reenter and blossom in the workforce:

1. Always keep it cool

Tess. Tess. Tess. You don't get ahead in this world by calling your boss a pimp. 



2. Asking questions and coming up with ideas are key – especially in the beginning of starting your job.

Remember, you make it happen! 



3. Keep it positive no matter what

Even when Tess experiences drama on the home front and finds out her boss stole idea, she keeps it cool and focuses on being successful 

4. Dress professionally (even in a low-key business casual environment).


Dress shabbily they notice the dress... 
5. Connect, learn from your co-workers + network with people in positions you’d want to be in 1 year from now to 10 years from now.

Tess made things happen for herself by collaborating with Jack Trainer on an idea she had.
Just make sure you don't burn any bridges when deciding to work with someone.




job hunt blues - are you utilizing your time wisely?

I've been job hunting since July and let me tell you - it hasn't been the easiest. I've actually taken breaks here and there because I've just been feeling so overwhelmed. I've realized the beauty and curse with having no job and lots of free time. You can spend your entire day very productive - going to the gym, taking a long walk to do an errand, cooking every night - you get the idea. The other alternative is feeling bummed out about your search that leads you to lounge around watching TV, and the next thing you know, nothing was accomplished. I've found a few ways to keep myself busy during this unpredictable time and I'd like to think it'll help you put some things in perspective (if you haven't done so already)!

1. Write a to-do list.
I write my to-do list on a field notes book I received at an event hosted by Vitamin T

I know you may have heard this before, but writing a to-do list really works for me. If I don't write a list, I may not get anything done. A to-do list will also make you feel accomplished, and you'll start to be more accountable to yourself, insuring that you're always doing something to reach a particular goal for the day.

2. Go on an adventure!

This has been the most exciting thing for me since the job hunt started. I love to walk around and enjoy the scenic views in Chicago. It's a bit cold now so I limit my adventures to going out with friends on weekends or one to two times a week. Either way, you are allowing yourself some play time without getting overly stressed out about the job market. Thank goodness for my new Chi friends, as we always find exciting ways to entertain each other, whether it's a birthday party or dinner at someone's lovely home.

3. Grab lunch or dinner with a pal.

This is probably the easiest way to catch up with peeps during the week - if you go to them and have lunch! My friend Libby and I always reunite at Nordstrom (as she's obsessed with Panda Express). In any case, this is great way to take a break from your regular job hunt search.

4. Figure out a plan B.
photo co. google images
Don't put all your eggs in one basket by only applying to jobs. Weigh other options like going back to school, traveling or joining the Peace Corps. You have to make moves either way, so why not be creative and consider of all your options? Make sure you really sit down and brainstorm what you could do and in the meantime (if you are short on cash), take a job in retail or doing something mundane so that you are making ends meet.

5. Read and network!

If you're applying for a job in social media (like I've been doing) it's imperative that you keep up with the latest trends. The best way to do this is to read Mashable, Techcrunch, Linked in and to post on social media networks. You might also want to attend events. I've been doing all these things so that I'm aware of recent trends that are happening or new tools being used to optimize a company's social media presence. I also highly recommend reading Likeable Social Media (which I've mentioned before). Stay connected with your field and eventually something will work out - believe it!

6. Exercise or do a little yoga!
photo co. google images 


I love this story on buffer about 6 simple things you can do every day to be consistently happy. In the article, Joel talks about how he exercises every day, which helps him be able to face challenges more strongly and get better sleep! For me, running twice a week and doing yoga on Wednesdays makes all the difference in the world, and once it's time for my monthly cycle, I feel better and can handle more work in my day.

7. Do something you love everyday!

I love cooking and one thing I've started to enjoy is vacuuming. With a cat, things can get a little messy so I always take pleasure in keeping the apartment clean and by cooking a new meal every day or as often as I can when I'm not attending events. This helps you feel accomplished, less cluttered and healthier (because you are making food from scratch). I also post videos of my best meals via my instagram.

I know it's hard out there trying to stay positive about getting a job, but remember if you're not going to be happy and take this challenge head on, who else will? Get out of your rut and begin brainstorming ideas that will change your life for the better. Think of the great things you can do and maybe you were meant to do that thing all along, or that job you didn't think you'd get is waiting for you! Keep the faith and practice some of these tips. I guarantee you'll begin to feel at ease and happier.

6 ways to perfect your next iphone photo!



I'm a huge fan of iphoneography, and I believe you can really capture amazing photos with the iPhone or any smartphone. Utilizing the edit photo option - you can brighten, crop, remove redeye and add a filter to enhance any iPhone photo. This is only the beginning in terms of the endless options you have with phone photography or iphoneography (the fancier term). I also use the following apps to edit, enhance and create art on my phone:

1. Instagram


This is an obvious one because over 100 million people use instagram on a monthly basis, but in any case, I really love all of the filter options on the app. It's especially amazing if and when you're taking photos of a birthday party, or you're out with family or friends and instagramming it, using an appropriate photo that suits the occasion. Hint: Valencia, Lo-Fi, Walden and Nashville are perfect for documenting on-the-go stuff. Later, you can print the photos out for .40 cents with walgreen's phone app. It's also important to note that instagram can be used with IOS, android or windows phone, which is awesome for everyone!

2. PicYou 


This app is super dope in that you have various filter options (similar to instagram), but with more frame options, which I enjoy. I use this app to enhance an image (I've taken or found online) and then I share it on other networks. You can discover others and follow them too if you want. The best part about PicYou is that the filters are rich and you can really capture great pictures of people and scenic shots.

3. Hipstamatic 

I've always been a huge fan of hisptamatic and it's actually really popular amongst us artsy types because the photo-taking options are endless! I love playing around with the different vintage lens options, flash and film. Beyonce is also a big user and shares cool shots on her blog.


4. Afterlight



If you haven't discovered Afterlight yet, now is the time. This is my favorite app to photo edit because it not only has 27 filters, but also 75 frames and an additional editing suite to fix a photo's brightness, saturation and exposure, just to name a few. After editing an image with this app, your photos will look more professional than you could've imagined. After viewing my daily celeb news on justjared, I often edit fashionable pics on afterlight to enhance the effect of professional paparazzi shots.

5. Pixlromatic


Pixlromatic is great for adding cool lighting effects and textures to your photos. Have a night out and want to make the photos extra special? This app is perfect for that, and you can finish off the look with textured frames too.


6. Camera360 


Take selfies like you've never taken them before with this super cool app. This app is unique in that you choose the filter first, and since you're looking at yourself while taking a photo, you can see its immediate effects. The MagicSkin makes your skin look smooth, fresh, sweet and well, lovely.

Once you start using any of these apps and enjoy the editing options on your phone, you'll begin to notice how professional and artistic your photos are. People will even begin to ask you for pointers, so be sure to share your techniques with them! Got any cool photo editing tips or ideas? Share away!

weekend in photos - chitown iphone edition

It's freezing in Chicago and it's not even February yet! I've been braving the cold by wearing extra layers, a wool coat with a ridiculously big hoodie, all the while attending events and mingling with friends. I had a blast at my friend Libby's bday party at Nellcote, enjoyed some delicious food at MingHin Cuisine in Chinatown, listened to Lorde, got a painless cartilage piercing at Insight Studios and had fun talking about old family photos and life with friends. I've been learning how to take the subway (the L for those of you who can't stand that term) and trying to give more to my community while job searching. I caught a cold on Saturday but hoping I get better for Thanksgiving. My friend recommended zinc lozenges which have been quite soothing to my throat. Check out my iPhone shots, and I'll be posting how to take professional photos on the iPhone this week! Trust me, great shots can be captured on any device. I hope you all had a wonderful weekend, staying warm. xx

3 easy ways to give back to your community right now!

source: sap.info


Let's face it - we're all super busy with our day to day lives, but somehow we always find time to do what we enjoy. But what if I told you that you can add an additional activity to your schedule that wouldn't require too much of your time, and will allow you to enrich your life as well? This activity is giving back to your community - a very important thing we all should do more of because it's healthy for us, will not only make us feel good but also empower others, and it will pay off for some of us job hunters. Here are the 3 easy ways I have found to give back to my community and hopefully they will give you some ideas:

Fun times with these incredible creative ladies at the She Says Chi networking event 


1. Attend events that promote social activism and advocate for a good cause while you network. While promoting my new blog, I've been attending a bunch of events in Chicago. Some are just networking for bloggers and tech people, but there are a ton of events for those of us interested in giving back. This past week, I attended an event hosted by She Says Chicago (an organization that combines networking for creative professional women with giving back to a good cause), where we donated art supplies to underprivileged teens. How did I find out about this event? I have the Eventbrite app on my phone and every Sunday I check what events are happening in my city, playing close attention to organizations that are doing good in our communities. I also scope out twitter and Facebook posts, and trust me, people are always posting events like this. Attending an event is an easy way to contribute because it won't take that much time in your schedule, while you're connecting with other folks and working on your job hunt or promoting your business. This article explains 7 reasons volunteering can lead to a job and this one is all about how it will improve your resume!

A panorama shot I took at the Greencorps after school program in South Shore

2. Use your interests to contribute to good causes. I'm very passionate about documenting people, so I always offer up my services to take photos of organizations doing good for the world. On Wednesday, I shadowed my friend Pete Kalenik, who is the Chief of Staff at Leave No Vet Behind, a non-profit organization employing veterans to keep kids safe in tough Chicago neighborhoods. For an entire day, I met and documented the phenomenal veterans in blue caps standing around schools, keeping watch over Chicago's youth. We then proceeded to the organizations' Greencorps program, where the teens in South Shore were harvesting and working on building solar panels and a green house. The teens were really happy to be photographed and expressed their excitement in being a part of this program, which is keeping them off the streets. Using my photo-documenting skills allowed me to contribute to these two causes, and I was extremely thrilled to be involved. According to this article, several studies show how giving back improves your health by stimulating the release of endorphins, which has been linked to improved nervous and immune system functions, not to mention improvement in one's self-esteem.

This is me filming in San Vicente during my Winter Term Cabo Verde Project in San Vicente



3. Little things count too - contribute, travel, donate & offer your services to food drives, a mentoring program, or your city's community service programs. I was reading an interesting article a couple of weeks ago about what nine world leaders were doing in their 20's, and I loved how Barack Obama helped rebuild his local community on the south side, volunteered at his church and then went back home to visit his relatives in Kenya. All of these things helped build his people skills, and I'm sure influenced his political decision to pursue the presidency. In Oberlin College, as part of my participation in the Bonner Scholars Program, I volunteered to go back home and take photos of the poverty in Cabo Verde. I documented the lives of families and children, then came back to my school and did a fashion show/ fundraiser benefitting the people back home. It was a fun adventure that allowed me to reconnect with my roots while simultaneously giving back. If you don't have the chance to travel, you can donate to a food drive. Do you live in a high rise building? Every holiday season I'm sure you've seen the collaborations between toys for tots or a similar toy drive organization you can contribute to as well. If you'd like to mentor a young teen or child, Mentoring.org has a list of organizations based on where you live. I also like Chicagocares.org where you can volunteer doing anything you'd like.

As you can see, the options are endless and giving back is a seamless activity that doesn't have to involve offering up too much of your time. In fact, it can be fun, healthy and amazing for your career. It's just the little things that add up to a big thing because you can impact someone else's life in a huge way!

love yourself - from the inside, out!

Over the years I've become infatuated with people's perception of beauty, especially us women because we tend to be overly critical of ourselves and super competitive with one another.

mean girls - you cheated on me
bathroom scene from mean girls - brand jack

This infatuation probably came about when I was experiencing the toughest part of PCOS - changes in my physical appearance. I began to question whether I was beautiful or not, and then I had to remind myself that this was only temporary, and that once I got my hormones back on track, things would be ok. This is exactly how it ended up playing out and now I don't worry so much, but what about women who haven't had any physical changes to their appearance? They just have this perception that they aren't beautiful no matter what makeup or clothes they put on. I feel this is a curse that we need to break because it not only affects our interaction with one another, but also how we find and keep love.

chloe moretz - celiendol

Think about the women in Hollywood who've altered their faces to look more defined and perfect! I'm sure names like Lindsay Lohan, Heidi Montag and Megan Fox are running through your mind. Heidi (for example) notes - "there is a lot of pressure there and of course we all want to feel attractive, wanted and beautiful". The average person isn't in Hollywood but we sure act like there's some sort of beauty pageant going on in real life because the way we interact with each other can be so catty and unacceptable.

screenshot from in touch magazine
Heidi is right - we all want to be beautiful, and that's why when we encounter someone we think is gorgeous, it threatens our perception of who we are. This New York Times article explains it all - some of you may agree with it and others may not.

 a privileged life




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I believe the solution to all of this is finding inner peace within ourselves and only then will we find our own true beauty, which will radiate out. If we take full care of our bodies - exercising, eating well, and finding beauty products that care for our skin types - our beauty will come out. I love Liv Tyler's article where she reveals her secrets on how she cares for her inner and outer beauty.

Ladies, are you with me? We have to respect ourselves and care for our beauty in order to reap the full benefits of true beauty.

I believe my true beauty evolved after I started taking care of my hormonal disorder. Once I figured out the right medications, eating habits and self-care, I feel that I became more at peace with myself and my beauty became more natural and easy to achieve. Now as far as us competing with one another - that is something I don't have a solution for, but it starts with a conversation and that's what I'm opening the door for in this post. Any ideas? Please tweet, share or comment. xx


thankful for my lilly - why cat adoption is important!



Our lives and hearts haven't been the same since Lilly stepped in. My fiancee and I adopted our four-year old medium-haired Maine Coon-looking cat this past March. She's everything we could've wanted in a pet and more. We consider her our child, even though we realize parenting will be an even bigger commitment. You know the saying, you will never know what it's like to be a mom until you have a child? Well, I believe you will never understand the love you feel of owning and loving a pet until you adopt one.